Is it really a huge shock when a relationship breaks apart? Chances are you saw 
it coming – or at least felt the drizzling rain before the hurricane hit. A large percentage of relationships that ended could have been saved if one (or both) of you had sought help in reconciling your broken relationship. If you feel like your relationship is struggling rather than waiting for the other person to come around take the initiative and start reconciling your broken relationship. There are three reconciling actions you should take before you lose someone you love over something you later won’t understand.
Communicating
Before you can do anything else you need to start communicating. This is a huge step because it requires being open and honest. Some might even feel it requires becoming vulnerable. However, a lasting relationship is founded on open communication and you’ll soon realize that you’re not opening yourself up to be hit but you’re really opening your heart to help fortify it with the help of your partner. You have to trust the person you’re with. Otherwise your relationship won’t last.
Communicating means you talk and you listen. You ask questions and you try to understand. You discuss options to fix problems. You act upon discovered solutions. Communication is more than just saying what’s on your mind. Communication means sometimes you have to agree to disagree. Communication means sometimes you have to concede.
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Fixing the Issues
Once you’ve talked about the problems in your relationship next you need to act upon what you both decided. Words without action are pointless. Your action proves your words as well as your feelings. If your girlfriend admits she has a hard time kissing you because you smell like smoke perhaps you could try to stop smoking or at least not smoke when she’s going to be around (though don’t tell her you’ve quit then continue to smoke behind her back). If your boyfriend admits he doesn’t like the way you just run off to do something with your friends and not tell him perhaps you should start opening that line of communication.
Forgiving and Forgetting
It’s going to take time to learn to fix the issues in your relationship you talk about but in the meantime you need to also forgive as well as work to forget past misdoings. Have patience as your significant other works to solve the issue that arose. He/she will have patience with you. It is considered bad form to constantly remind someone of his/her past mistakes especially when he/she is working to fix those mistakes.
Just because your relationship is facing some rough waters doesn’t mean everything is going to dissolve if a hurricane hits. Prepare yourselves for the storm by having open communication, working together as much as possible to find solutions and fix issues and by forgiving each other and forgetting about past misdeeds. Once you’ve mastered these three reconciling tips you’ll be able to fortifying your relationship to deal with any future tough circumstances.